Street Pastors Founder Warns: Christian Marriages Are Crumbling Behind Closed Doors
Street Pastors founder Les Isaac says Christian marriages need serious help and repair, urging churches to break the culture of silence.
Street Pastors Founder Les Isaac Calls on Churches to Take Marriage Ministry Seriously
Rev Les Isaac, the founder of Street Pastors and CEO of Ascension Trust, has issued a passionate call for churches to step up their support for married couples, warning that Christian marriages are in desperate need of help behind closed doors.
Speaking at an online event hosted by Keep the Faith magazine, Isaac, who has been married to his wife Louise for 45 years, said that too many churches are failing to respond to the marriage crisis within their own congregations.
Lots of marriages in the church and Christian marriage behind closed doors need some serious help and repair, which the Church is not responding to.
Isaac, who received an OBE in 2012 for his work founding Street Pastors, urged church leaders to break the "culture of silence" around marital struggles. He believes that when pastors are honest about their own relationship challenges, it encourages congregants to seek help before it is too late.
His wife Louise Isaac coined the phrase: "The length of a marriage is not evidence of the health of the marriage," highlighting that simply staying together for decades does not mean a relationship is thriving.
Louise also emphasized the spiritual dimension of marriage, noting that hostile spiritual forces target what God deems good. She referenced a non Christian friend who observed that conflict between couples often intensifies after they marry.
How Churches Can Strengthen Marriages According to Les Isaac

The Isaacs outlined several practical steps churches can take. These include implementing consistent prayer for marriages in church agendas, developing intentional marriage ministry programs, and offering Sunday teaching series on biblical relationships.
They also called on leaders to openly discuss common relationship challenges such as communication, finances, and intimacy, and to identify and empower skilled, educated members within the congregation to support couples rather than placing all responsibility on pastoral staff alone.
The Crusader's Opinion
Les Isaac is speaking a truth that too many churches have been afraid to confront. We have spent decades building outreach programs, youth ministries, and worship teams while marriages in our own pews crumble in silence. The family is the foundational unit of Christian civilization, and when we allow it to deteriorate without intervention, we hand the enemy a victory he did not even have to fight for. If the Church cannot protect the covenant of marriage within its own walls, it has no business lecturing the world about family values. It is time for pastors to lead with honesty, for congregations to rally around struggling couples, and for every believer to recognize that a strong marriage is an act of spiritual warfare.
Take Action
- Ask your pastor to launch a marriage ministry or couples' support group at your church this year. If one does not exist, volunteer to help start one.
- Visit Time for Marriage to find marriage enrichment resources, conferences, and events near you.
- Reach out to a married couple in your congregation this week. Invite them for dinner, ask how they are really doing, and pray with them.
- Support www.TheShepherdsShield.org to help fund Christian family support initiatives and ministry outreach.
- Read and share Les Isaac's work through Street Pastors and consider volunteering with their community outreach programs.